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National Thank You Day (Jan. 11): Ideas and Messages
Ideas and messages for National Thank You Day on January 11, with wording for a former teacher, nurse, mentor, neighbor or stranger, plus ideas for work.
Edited by Michael KahnUpdated
Heartfelt
Dear Mrs. Varga, I was in your tenth-grade English class in 2009, the year we read The Grapes of Wrath. You wrote "say more here" in the margin of my essay on the Joad family, and I have been saying more ever since. I am an editor at a small press in Portland now. January 11 is National Thank You Day, and you were the first name on my list. With gratitude, Selma
Dear Valentina, You were my night nurse on the fourth floor at St. Joseph's after my knee replacement in October 2024. At 3 a.m., when the pain medication wore off early, you sat on the edge of the bed and talked me through it until the next dose. I am walking two miles a day now, and I wanted you to know. With thanks, Ursula
Dear Dad, It is National Thank You Day, so here is one I should have said at twenty. Thank you for driving me to 5 a.m. swim practice for four winters in the Buick with the broken heater, and for asking how practice felt instead of what my times were. I understand those mornings now that I am the one setting the alarm for Tilly. Love, Zachary
To the woman in the red coat at Union Station, On a Tuesday in March you saw me in tears over a missed train with a toddler and two suitcases, and you carried our stroller up the stairs to the next platform. I did not get your name. I am posting this on National Thank You Day in case it reaches you. With thanks, Tamara
Dear Station 14, Last spring your crew answered our call when my mother fell on the back steps. The paramedic who stayed in the kitchen with me kept saying her name so she would stay alert while the others got her onto the stretcher. She turns ninety in March and still tells the story. The snickerdoodles are for the whole shift. With gratitude, Quinn
Dear Ms. Quigley, You were the librarian at the Fremont branch when I was eleven and spent every afternoon there because I had nowhere else to go. You saved me each new Redwall book and let me shelve returns for gold stars. I teach fifth grade now, and I keep a shelf in my room for kids like me. Gratefully, Wes
Dear Grandma Rhoda, Thank you for teaching me to make pierogi at your kitchen table every Christmas Eve. I made a batch for my roommates last weekend, pinched the edges the way you showed me, and only two burst in the pot. Happy National Thank You Day. Love, Zelda
Warm
Dear Rodrigo, Seven years ago you spent a lunch hour going through my first budget spreadsheet line by line and showed me where the formulas broke. Last month I used the same method to build the plan for my own team of twelve. I meant to write this a long time ago, and National Thank You Day finally got me to do it. Thank you, Wyatt
Dear Trent, Thank you for shoveling our driveway after every snowfall since my husband's back surgery last winter. You did it before seven, before either of us was up, and you never once knocked to say it was done. We noticed every time. Warmly, Renata
Dear Yves, Thank you for six years on our route. You tuck packages behind the planter when it rains, and when Sol was two you waved back at her in the front window every afternoon. Happy National Thank You Day. With thanks, The Reyes family at 412 Alder
Dear neighbors, Today is National Thank You Day, and we want to thank everyone who bought a loaf at Rye and Rise this year. You ordered 3,200 holiday stollen in December, came back after the oven broke in August, and kept telling your friends about the Saturday sourdough. Anyone who stops in today gets a free morning bun with our thanks. With gratitude, Wilhelmina and the Rye and Rise bakers
Dear Coach Rourke, Thank you for the summer of 1998 at Lakeside Little League, when you moved me from right field to catcher and told me a dirty uniform meant I was in the game. I coach my daughter's softball team now, and I say that line to them every Saturday. Gratefully, Silas
Dear Mr. Ybarra, In 2016 you hired me at the diner with no restaurant experience and a résumé that fit on half a page. You taught me to run the grill on Saturday mornings, and last spring I opened my own café. Happy National Thank You Day from your former dishwasher. With thanks, Reuben
Dear Ms. Yates, Thank you for driving bus 22 and for saying good morning to me by my name. You waited for me in October when I ran back for my backpack. Love, Theo
Happy National Thank You Day from all of us at Willow and Thread. Thank you for 4,000 orders this year, for the photos of your finished quilts, and for your patience during the shipping delays in November. Every order placed today ships with a handwritten note from our team.
Funny
Dear Mr. Winters, Thank you for fixing the heater in our classroom. It was cold and now it is warm. I like how you whistle when you mop the hall. From, Rosie, Room 7
Casual
Hi Wendy, I was looking at the photo from our 2011 road trip to the Grand Canyon and realized I never thanked you for driving the last nine hours alone while I slept off food poisoning in the back seat. Happy International Thank You Day. Lunch soon? I owe you about fifteen years of interest. Love, Ramona
Hi Sergio, Happy National Thank You Day. Thank you for teaching me the ticketing system in my first week here, two years ago. You wrote me a one-page cheat sheet, and it is still taped inside my desk drawer. Thanks, Yasmin
Dear Sunil, Thank you for having my oat milk cortado ready most mornings before I reach the counter. On the day of my bar exam you wrote "you got this" on the cup, and I still have the sleeve. Happy National Thank You Day. Thanks, Valeria
Today is National Thank You Day, so tonight I finally wrote to my seventh-grade science teacher, the nurse from my son's NICU stay, my first manager, my neighbor across the street and my grandmother. Every one of those notes was years overdue. Who is on your list?
Happy National Thank You Day! Thank you for feeding Biscuit the whole week we were in Ohio. I owe you a pie.
Formal
Dear Mr. Quarles, Thank you for being the first customer at Vale Hardware in 2018, and for every Saturday visit since. You bought a box of wood screws on opening morning and told three people on your street about us before the week was out. Happy National Thank You Day from all of us. Sincerely, Vince
Dear Dr. Underwood, In 2015 you agreed to supervise my senior thesis on river otters after two other professors had said no. I am a wildlife biologist with the state now, and last month I tagged my first otter. This note is about ten years late, and I am sending it anyway. Sincerely, Tessa
Short & sweet
Happy National Thank You Day. I never thanked you for the ride home in the snow in 2019, so thank you now.
It is National Thank You Day, and you were the first person I thought of. Thank you for the advice about the job in Tucson.
Happy International Thank You Day. Your Tuesday check-in calls got me through my first year of teaching.
January 11 seemed like the right day to say it. Thank you for the reference letter that got me into nursing school.
National Thank You Day is January 11, and it is a good day to send the thank-yous you meant to write and never did. Pick a few people (a former teacher, a nurse, a mentor, a neighbor), and write each one three or four sentences that name what they did and where you are now. Mail the cards that week, or send a message when an address is out of reach.
What is National Thank You Day?
In the US, January 11 is observed as National Thank You Day, which some calendars list as International Thank You Day. It is not an official holiday, so nothing closes. If you are still writing holiday gift thank-yous in January, add notes to the stack for people who gave you something other than a present.
Who to thank: the notes you never sent
Start with the people who helped you at a turning point and never heard how it turned out. Good candidates include a teacher who changed how you saw a subject, a nurse from a hospital stay, a coach, a first boss who took a chance, a librarian, a mail carrier who has been on your route for years, and a stranger who stepped in once. Parents and old friends belong on the list too, especially for something you only appreciated later. For teachers, our teacher appreciation wording has more examples, and first responder thank-you wording covers firefighters, paramedics and dispatchers.
How to write an overdue thank-you
An overdue note needs three things: when and where you knew the person, the one thing they did, and where you are now. The last part is the one they cannot learn any other way. You can acknowledge the delay in one clause (“this note is about ten years late”) and move on. If you need a refresher on the basics, see how to write a thank-you note.
Five notes in one evening
If you want to make the day count, here is a plan that fits into one evening:
- Before dinner, write down ten names without stopping to judge them.
- Circle five: two from long ago, one from this past year, one person you see often, and one you have no easy way to reach.
- Find an address or contact for each. Give yourself ten minutes per person, and pick a different name if you cannot find one.
- Write each note in one sitting, three or four sentences, without drafting. Name the moment, the help and the outcome.
- Address and stamp the cards that night, and send any emails or messages before bed.
Finding an address, and what to do when you cannot
For a former teacher, try the school’s front office and ask whether they will pass a card along. For a nurse whose last name you do not know, mail the note to the unit with the dates of your stay, or call the hospital first and ask how they handle notes for staff. A card can be addressed to the crew at a fire station, the staff of a library branch, or the carrier on your route. For a stranger whose name you never knew, a post in a local community group or a letter to the business where it happened gives the note a chance to reach them.
National Thank You Day for businesses
A business can use the day to thank customers for something specific from the past year: a number of orders, a milestone, patience during a delay. Sign it from real people. A small in-store treat, a handwritten note tucked into the day’s orders, or a personal card to your longest-standing customers gives the post something to back it up.
A classroom thank-you activity
In a classroom, January 11 is an easy writing lesson. Ask students to pick someone at school who rarely gets a thank-you (the custodian, the bus driver, the cafeteria staff, the crossing guard), then write two sentences: one about what that person does, and one about a time it helped. Younger students can draw a picture and dictate a line. Deliver the notes together that afternoon.
Social posts and short lines
A social post on the day can thank people publicly, or share the list of notes you wrote to encourage others to do the same. Keep names out of posts about medical care or hard times unless you have permission. For a short text, one specific memory plus “thank you” is enough. If you are tired of the same phrasing, our guide to other ways to say thank you has alternatives.
Common questions
When is National Thank You Day?
National Thank You Day is January 11 every year. In 2027 it falls on a Monday.
Is International Thank You Day the same as National Thank You Day?
Yes. In the US, January 11 goes by both names, and you will see either one on calendars and social media.
Is National Thank You Day an official holiday?
No. It is an informal observance, so schools, banks and offices stay open. It is a good reason to write the notes you have been meaning to send.
What should I do on National Thank You Day?
Make a short list of people you never properly thanked, such as a former teacher, a nurse, a mentor or a neighbor, and write each of them a few sentences. Mail the cards that week, or send an email or message when you only have an online way to reach them.
How do you write a thank-you note years after the fact?
Say when and where you knew them, name the one thing they did, and tell them where you are now. A brief nod to the delay is fine, but skip the long apology. The person will be glad to hear from you whatever the date.
How can a business celebrate National Thank You Day?
Send a short note or post thanking customers for something specific from the past year, such as the orders, the reviews or their patience during a rough stretch. A small in-store treat or a handwritten note in today's orders gives the thanks something concrete to go with it.
What is a good National Thank You Day activity for a classroom?
Have each student write a note to someone at school who rarely gets one, like the custodian, the bus driver, the cafeteria staff or the front office. Younger kids can draw a picture and add one sentence about what that person does for them.